How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back 

 

So you called it quits with your girlfriend and now you feeling it was so not a good idea to have let her go? You want her back in your life, but just don’t know how to get your ex-girlfriend back strategy’? Well, I guess this is your lucky day! Below is a list of positive steps to take in getting your ex-girlfriend back. Tag along and follow through with these simple steps, and you’ll win her heart back without even knowing it.

How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back – Step 1

First and foremost, you need to begin with a re-connection strategy. I call this a re-connection strategy because you guys might have gone off for quite a while, and just barging in un-invited back into her life without any prior permission may put her off. It could literally ruin every dream you’ve thought of in getting her back. So I propose you use this strategy by making use of a simple text message. A re-connection can be created by sending her a message that reminds her of the fact that you still have her in your thoughts, though you guys broke up. Think of something that reminded you of her, and text it to her…. For instance, your text could read…

‘ I was flipping through my scrap book, and I happen to come across pictures of our trip down North to visit my parents for Christmas.., thoughts of you  came back to me…’     That’s a good way to start.

How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back – Step 2

Now moving on to step number two…, move over from the simple text message zone into the ‘calling her zone’. At this point, she may have gotten your message, and is probably expecting you to call her. So by actually calling, you better your chances of talking to her and initiating a proper conversation. Now that can lay the foundation to start off in winning her back.

How to win back your ex girlfriend – Step 3

 How to get your ex-girlfriend back in seven easy steps

Strategy three! Go on to tell her about how you really feel and have been since the break. In doing this, try not to throw things over-board. Keep it real and simple as much as possible, but at the same time bringing out how you really feel about the way you treated her and how you want things to be in the present circumstances. Don’t be too emotional about it, but if you get to break down in the process, don’t worry about it. It’s pretty normal. Every guy breaks down once a while, and in matters of the heart.., it’s no different.

Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back – Step 4

Progress now to laying your cards on the table. This stage provides you with the platform to bear out all you wish to attain by re-initiating a relationship with your ex- girlfriend. Let her know what your true intentions are. Be sure to let her know she’s the one you want and feel remorse for hurting her the way you did. Attach some seriousness to wanting her back for real and let her know it’s no joke.

How to get your ex-girlfriend back – Step 5

Owning up to your shortcomings in the relationship, and apologizing for the pain caused is the next step to take now. You broke her heart.., yes, but just assure her that you didn’t mean to. Maybe you were a jerk, fine, but you realized how empty your life is without her in the picture. Let your emotions be felt at this point, because it could do a lot to change her mind about taking you back.

Getting your ex-girlfriend back – Step 6

Try not to bring in the past, while establishing new grounds for re-building your relationship with her. That’s a NO-NO! Breaking her heart was just enough to kill her, but going on and on about what happened, could even kill her more. Just don’t go there really. It won’t do you much good with her.

How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back – Step 7

Getting your ex girlfriend back can be very easy since the spark is already there

Forget about what happened while you two were apart…, who dated who or who slept with whom. It’s not important. The two of you thought you were never going to get back together, so you tried out new and fun stuff with other people. Who cares? It’s done and it’s in the past. Don’t go worrying about all that, and definitely don’t discuss it with her either. It will only make you appear insecure and uncertain about yourself. Just let everything go and focus on winning her heart back. That’s the most important thing.

No one ever feels happy when they get dumped by their partner, and so does your girlfriend. Winning her over could take a gradual process, but every step is worth the wait if you certain about wanting her back for real.  It’s not at all going to be easy…; some ladies might fight back and resist the temptation of falling back into the arms of their ex- boyfriends for fear of getting dumped again. But if you are really determined to claim her back, it’s very much possible. Be positive about it and don’t let anybody dissuade you from doing just that.

How to Get Your Ex-Girlfriend Back was written by Otoobong Emmanuel